a story of friendship
Our story began well over a decade ago with a simple monthly happy hour among friends. As several local LGBT bars closed, this small meetup became the seed of a vibrant community. With each passing year, our following grew, drawing people from further away who sought friendship and connection.
The pandemic in 2020 brought in-person social activities to a halt. Many also relocated to New Jersey for work, safety, or a change of pace, often without previous community ties. As restrictions lifted, the undeniable need for genuine, in-person connections emerged. In 2022, several of us regrouped, branded ourselves as Gay Social, and expanded our initial concept by exploring new locations and activities, with a continued focus on fostering friendship and community.
Today, Gay Social is a thriving community with over 2,000 active followers across the state. Officially established and incorporated as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit in 2024, Gay Social is dedicated to bringing LGBT people together to connect, celebrate, and support each other through the power of friendship.
our featured supporters
We wouldn't be able to do what we do without the support of our donors and our partners.
our mission
Our mission is to foster a vibrant and inclusive LGBT community within New Jersey. We bring people together through regular events, creating opportunities for meaningful connections, friendship, and support.
Our organization is dedicated to ensuring our community feels welcomed, accepted, and empowered to forge lasting relationships and build a stronger, united community.
our vision
Our vision is to create a dynamic and far-reaching network of events that spans across every corner of New Jersey.
We envision a future where our inclusive gatherings and meaningful connections are accessible to individuals throughout the state, empowering the gay community to thrive and build enduring connections.
By continuously expanding our events, we aim to foster a sense of belonging and togetherness, creating a stronger and united community that positively impacts the lives of all its members.
meet our team
Lloyd Vliet
Co-founder, Chairman of the Board and Executive Director
Lloyd Vliet, a marketing professional, has been leading Gay Social since its inception in February 2022. As a co-founder, Lloyd’s vision and dedication have been instrumental in driving the organization forward, fostering a vibrant and inclusive community.
Andrew Casano
Board Member and Director of Events
Andrew Casano, a prominent figure in the gay community in Hunterdon County, joined our board in 2024. Serving as a Board Member and Director of Events, Andrew’s efforts are essential in creating and managing the events that bring our community together.
